three kinds of friends

“I have three kinds of friends: those who love me, those who pay no attention to me, and those who detest me.”

Sebastien-Roch Nicolas de Chamfort (1741-94) French Writer

Well…truthfully, I have four kinds of friends.

Besides the friends who love me, those who pay no attention to me (the friends I recently ‘unfriended’ on Facebook) Who has 1,721 friends anyway? there are the friends who detest me. You know who you are!

At a guess, I’d have to say, ‘if you get out of this life with more than a handful of REAL friends, your life has been a success.’ I think I’ve told you before, I believe Our lives are shaped by those who love us – and those who refuse to love us.

My fourth kind of friend? Those imaginary friends who come to life in my storybooks – the friends I make up.

To be perfectly honest with you, I’ve been making up imaginary friends since childhood.  Being an only child, growing up on a summer guest ranch high up in the Colorado mountains, with only adults for companions, meant books and imaginary playmates were pretty much a necessity.

For the first six years of my life every winter was spent listening to my mother read aloud from books she collected during her childhood. There was The Little Colonel series, Animal Stories by Georges Duplaiz, Little Women and so many little Golden Books I can’t recall them all.  Later there was The Girl of the Limberlost, Freckels, and The Harvester by Gene Stratton-Porter. Most of these old time treasures still live in my library ready to be dusted off and enjoyed again and again Mom loved reading aloud, and I loved listening. She also loved to take little e on nature walks around the ranch. I have her to thank for my love of reading, writing, flowers and birds, and oh so much more.

So anyway, developing imaginary friends for little people is a personal passion I’ve developed over many, many years.  That’s why, between writing and painting, I’ve been scanning another of my stories into PDF format for the kids page. I’ll let you know when it’s finished. In the meanwhile, you might like reading The Sparrow’s Home   or Bootsey’s Picnic aloud to your little people.

Happy reading friends!

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